The issue of two women witnesses in place of one man is the concern
of the present treatise. As will become clear to the sincere and
objective reader, the intellectual status of a Muslim woman is neither
marred nor degraded by the commandment that if two Muslim male witnesses
are not available then one Muslim male and two Muslim females should be
invited to witness. Rather, this injunction is in perfect harmony with
the nature and psychology of the woman as will become evident through
quotations from psychologists, psychiatrists and medical research.
The passage of the Qur'an (Baqarah 2:282) in which the
above-mentioned requirement is made has usury, capital and debtor
difficulties as its theme. Allah grants guidelines in matters relating
to monetary obligations. Then business transactions are dealt with. In
this section, the requirement to commit all transactions into writing is
stated most emphatically ("Reduce them to writing ... ").
The section after this describes the responsibility of the scribe, or
in modern parlance, the person responsible for drawing up the agreement.
The following section describes the responsibility and the obligation
of the person incurring the liability. The section after this explains
how if the party that is liable cannot effectively draw up the contract -
out of being deficient or weak mentally, or being unable to dictate -
then his or her guardian should help draw out the contract and choose
two suitable witnesses to observe. It must be understood that this
situation arises if it is not possible for the liable party to draw out
the contract by him/herself. The condition to put things into writing is
still supreme. The next section then explains that two men should be
called to witness and if two men are not available ("And if there are not two men ... ")
then a man and two women. The legislation then continues and reminds
most emphatically that one should not be complacent about putting ALL
agreements into writing - no matter whether these agreements are major
or minor as this is more JUST in the sight of Allah and more reliable as
evidence. The passage of the Qur'an further explains that for practical
reasons it may not always be possible to commit on-the-spot agreements
into writing. In this case, it is also recommended that it be witnessed.
The section which follows then lays down the guidelines which should be
followed in the event that no witnesses are present.
The purpose in giving the above outline is to draw attention to the fact the question of women witnesses relates, in this instance, to commercial agreements and is not a statement on their status.
Let's look at the section under investigation in more detail. Allah said:
"And get two witnesses
of your own men, and if there are not two men then a man and two women
such as you choose for witnesses - so that if one of them errs, the
other can remind her ... " [2:182]
A number of questions (as well as eyebrows!) are raised when this
section of the passage is read. The questions often posed include:
- Do women have weaker memories than men?
- Why should two women be needed in the place of one man?
- Are women inferior to men?
One must remember that Prophet Muhammad (saws)
was neither a physiologist, a psychiatrist and nor a surgeon. He was an
illiterate and could neither read nor write. He passed on the
revelation exactly as he received it. Allah, the Creator, with
His infinite wisdom gave the directives best suited to humankind. He is
the Creator, therefore, He knows man better than a man himself.
In this scientific age we can explore the significance of this
legislation. A great deal has been discovered since the early days of
Islam. And each day of advancement brings about a better understanding
of the the last and final revelation from the Creator, Allah to the
creation, humankind. As women, we are aware of the cyclical
psychological strains that a woman has to encounter every month. The
symptoms during early pregnancy, ante-natal and post-natal depressions,
the phenomenon of menopause, the physiological and psychological
problems due to infertility and last but not least the psychological
problems faced after miscarriage.
It is under these situations that women can experience extraordinary
psychological strains giving rise to depression, lack of concentration,
slow-mindedness and short term memory loss. Let us examine these
episodes in a bit more detail and with medical references from the
scientific world. PMT is an umbrella term for more than 140 different
symptoms and there is a lot of evidence that it causes a lot of
unhappiness in many women, and consequently, to their families.
Psychiatry in Practice, April 1983 issue states:
"Forty percent of women suffer from
pre-menstrual syndrome in some form and one in if our women have their
lives severely disrupted by it. Dr Jill Williams, general practitioner
from Bury, gives guidelines on how to recognise patients at risk and
suggests a suitable treatment." [Psychiatry in Practice, April 1993, p.14]
In the same issue, George Beaumont reporting on the workshop held at
the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists in London on
pre-menstrual syndrome, says:
"Some authorities would argue that 80
percent of women have some degree of breast and abdominal discomfort
which is pre-menstrual but that only about 10 percent complain to their
doctors - and then only because of severe tenderness of the breasts and
mental depression... Other authorities have suggested that pre-menstrual
syndrome is a new problem, regular ovulation for 20 years or more being
a phenomenon caused by 'civilisation', 'medical progress', and an
altered concept of the role of women." [Psychiatry in Practice, April 1993, p.18]
In its examination of the occurrence of physical and psychological
change during the period just prior to the onset of menstruation we read
in Psychological Medicine:
"Many
studies have reported an increased
likelihood of various negative affects during the pre-menstrual period.
In this affective category are many emotional designations including
irritability, depression, tension, anxiety, sadness, insecurity,
lethargy, loneliness, tearfulness, fatigue, restlessness and changes of
mood. In the majority of studies, investigators have found it difficult
to distinguish between various negative affects, and only a few have
allowed themselves to be excessively concerned with the differences
which might or might not exist between affective symptoms."
[Psychological Medicine, Monograph Supplement 4, 1983, Cambridge
University Press, p.6]
In the same article dealing with pre-menstrual behavioural changes we read:
"A significant relationship between the
pre-menstrual phase of the cycle and a variety of specific and defined
forms of behaviour has been reported in a number of studies. For the
purpose of their review, these forms of behaviour have been grouped
under the headings of aggressive behaviour, illness behaviour and
accidents, performance on examination and other tests and sporting
performance." [Psychological Medicine, Monograph Supplement 4, 1983, Cambridge University Press, p.7]
The
lengthy review portrays how female behaviour is affected in these
situations. In 'The Pre-menstrual Syndrome', C. Shreeves writes:
"Reduced powers of concentration and memory
are familiar aspects of the pre-menstrual syndrome and can only be
remedied by treating the underlying complaint."
This does not mean, of course, that women are mentally deficient
absolutely. It just means that their mental faculties can become
affected at certain times in the biological cycle. Shreeves also writes:
"As many as 80 percent of women are aware
of some degree of pre-menstrual changes, 40 percent are substantially
disturbed by them, and between 10 and 20 percent are seriously disabled
as a result of the syndrome."
Furthermore, women face the problem of ante-natal and post-natal
depression, both of which cause extreme cycles of depression in some
cases. Again, these recurring symptoms naturally affect the mind, giving
rise to drowsiness and dopey memory.
On the subject of pregnancy in Psychiatry in Practice, October-November 1986, we learn that:
"In an experiment 'Cox' found that 16
percent of a sample of 263 pregnant women were suffering from clinically
significant psychiatric problems. Eight percent had a depressive
neurosis and 1.9 percent had phobic neurosis. This study showed that the
proportion of pregnant women with psychiatric problems was greater than
that found in the control group but the difference only tended towards
significance." [Psychiatry in Practice, October-November, 1986, p.6]
Regarding the symptoms during the post-natal cycle Dr. Ruth Sagovsky writes:
"The third category of puerperal
psychiatric problems is post-natal depression. It is generally agreed
that between10 to 15 percent of women become clinically depressed after
childbirth. These mothers experience a variety of symptoms but anxiety,
especially over the baby, irritability, and excessive fatigue are
common. Appetite is usually decreased and often there are considerable
sleep difficulties. The mothers lose interest in the things they enjoyed
prior to the baby's birth, and find that their concentration is
impaired. They often feel irrational guilt, and blame themselves for
being 'bad' wives and mothers. Fifty percent of these women are not
identified as having a depressive illness. Unfortunately, many of them
do not understand what ails them and blame their husbands, their babies
or themselves until the relationships are strained to an alarming
degree." [Psychiatry in Practice, May, 1987, p.18]
As
has been mentioned above the Prophet Muhammad (saws) was neither a psychologist nor a psychiatrist. Rather, he merely
conveyed the truth that was revealed to him. It is in the context of
this quotation and the one before it that the following saying of the
Prophet Muhammad (saws) can be understood: "Treat
your women kindly. The woman has been created from a rib, and the most
curved part of a rib is its upper region. If you try to straighten it
you will break it, and if you leave it as it is, it will remain curved.
So treat women kindly." And in another narration: "If you try to straighten her you will break her and breaking her means divorce."
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim] This is very important advice for
the man - for him to have patience and not to try to 'reform' the
behavioural pattern of the woman during these times i.e. 'to straighten
her'. He will not be able to do that, as it is biological in origin.
Instead, he should maintain and protect his relationship with her by
showing kindness
Again there is a need to study the effects of the menopause about
which very little is known even to this day. This phase in a woman's
life can start at any time from the mid-thirties to the mid-fifties and
can last for as long as 15 years.
Writing about the pre-menopausal years, C.B. Ballinger states:
"Several of the community surveys indicate a
small but significant increase in psychiatric symptoms in women during
the five years prior to the cessation of menstrual periods... The most
obvious clinical feature of this transitional phase of menstrual
function is the alteration in menstrual pattern, the menstrual cycle
becoming shorter with age, and variability in cycle length become very
prominent just prior to the cessation of menstruation. Menorrhagia is a
common complaint at this time, and is associated with higher than normal
levels of psychiatric disturbance." [Psychiatry in Practice, November, 1987, p.26]
On the phenomenon of menopause in an article in Newsweek
International, May 25th 1992, Dr. Jennifer al-Knopf, Director of the Sex
and Marital Therapy Programme of North-western University writes:
" ... Women never know what their body is
doing to them ... some reporting debilitating symptoms from hot flashes
to night sweat, sleeplessness, irritability, mood swings, short term
memory loss, migraine, headaches, urinary inconsistence and weight gain.
Most such problems can be traced to the drop-off in the female hormones
oestrogen and progesterone, both of which govern the ovarian cycle. But
every woman starts with a different level of hormones and loses them at
different rates. The unpredictability is one of the most upsetting
aspects. Women never know what their body is going to do to them ... "
Then there are the psychiatric aspects of infertility and miscarriage. On the subject of infertility, Dr. Ruth Sagovsky writes:
"Depression, anger and guilt are common
reactions to bereavement. In infertility there is the added pain of
there being nobody to grieve for. Families and friends may contribute to
the feeling of isolation by passing insensitive comments. The
gynaecologist and GPs have to try to help these couples against a
backdrop of considerable distress." [Psychiatry in Practice, Winter, 1989, p.16]
On the subject of miscarriage the above article continues:
"Miscarriage is rarely mentioned when
considering abortion. However, miscarriage can at times have profound
psychological sequelae and it is important that those women affected
receive the support they need. Approximately one-fifth of all
pregnancies end in spontaneous abortion and the effects are poorly
recognised. If however, the miscarriage occurs in the context of
infertility, the emotional reaction may be severe. The level of grief
will depend on the meaning of pregnancy to the couple." [Psychiatry in Practice, Winter, 1989, p.17]
Also, the fact that women are known to be more sensitive and
emotional than men must not be overlooked. It is well known, for
example, that under identical circumstances women suffer much greater
anxiety than men. Numerous medical references on this aspect of female
behaviour can be given but to quote as a specimen, we read in 'Sex Differences in Mental Health' that:
"Surveys have found different correlates of
anxiety and neuroticism in the two sexes. Women and men do not become
equally upset by the same things, and being upset does not have the same
effect in men as in women. Ekehammer (1974; Ekehammer, Magnusson and
Ricklander, 1974) using data from 116 sixteen-year-olds, did a factor
analysis on self-reported anxiety. Of the eighteen different responses
indicating anxiety (sweating palms, faster heart rate, and so on)
females reported experiencing twelve of them significantly more often
than males. Of the anxiety-producing situations studied, females
reported experiencing significantly more anxiety than males reported in
fourteen of them." [Katherine Blick Hoyenga and Kermit T. Hoyenga in Sex Differences in Mental Health, p.336]
It is in light of the above findings of psychologist, psychiatrists and researchers that the saying of Allah, the Exalted:
"And get two witnesses
of your own men, and if there are not two men then a man and two women
such as you choose for witnesses - SO THAT IF ONE OF THEM ERRS, THE
OTHER CAN REMIND HER ... " [2:182]
can be understood. One must also bear in mind that forgetfulness can
be an asset. A woman has to be put up with children presenting all kinds
of emotional problems and a woman is certainly known to be more
resilient than man.
The aim of presenting these research findings on a
number of aspects related with the theme is to indicate that a woman by
her biological constitution faces such problems. It does not however
make her inferior to man but it does illustrate that she is different.
Viewed in this way, it can only lead one to the conclusion that Allah
knows His creation the best and has prescribed precise laws in keeping
with the nature of humankind.
Allah, the Creator, is - as always - All-Knowing and man (or
the disbeliever in Allah and the final, perfected, revealed way of
life, Islam) is - as usual - either ignorant and arrogant.
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