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Ideological Warfare from the Nations of Kuffr !

All are subject to a great ideological warfare from the nations of Kuffr; from both the east and the west. The severest and most serious of these onslaughts are: 

[1] The war of the christian crusaders. 
[2] The zionist war. 
[3] The communist and atheistic war. 

The war of the christian crusaders is today at its most intense. Since Salahud-Deen al-Ayyobi achieved victory over the christians crusading in the Muslim lands with their strength and weapons, the christians realized that even though they had achieved (some) victories, these victories were temporary ones that did not last. That is why they started thinking about the most destructive alternatives. After numerous case studies and assemblies they arrived at (something) that was far more dangerous and destructive than military warfare; which was that the christian nations, both individually and collectively, should launch an ideological attack on those Muslims who were just beginning to grow and develop. 

This is because conquering the hearts and thoughts (of people) is far more permanent than conquering their lands. The Muslim whose mind has not been corrupted cannot bear to see the Kuffaar wielding authority, and ordering and prohibiting in his own country. Therefore such a Muslim strives his utmost to expel and distance them, even if he has to sacrifice his own life, or his most cherished possession, for this cause. And this is what happened after the major conquest of the crusaders.

Reality of Imaan...

Muhaddith Sulayman al-‘Alwan commenting on the words of Shaykhul-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah when he said:

“And the Kuffr of Iblees and Fir’awn and the Jews; its asl (foundation) was not because of the non-existence of tasdeeq and knowledge. This is because no one had informed Iblees with any news. Rather, Allah ordered him to prostrate to Adam but he refused and became proud and he was from the Kaafireen. So his Kuffr was out of refusal and pride and that, which comes as a result of it and not because of taktheeb. And also like this was Fir’awn and his people. They rejected it while their own selves were certain of it, due to wrongdoing and conceit. And Musa said to him, “And you have known that no one brought that down except the Lord of the Heavens and the Earth.” So what must be said here is one of two matters: (And this is the saying of the murjiah): Either it is to be said that al-istikbar and al-iba’ (i.e. refusal to comply) and al-hasad (i.e. envy) and things like that, from which Kuffr would be directly associated with the non-existence of knowledge and tasdeeq, which is Imaan (according to them). 

Otherwise, whoever has full knowledge and tasdeeq; then it would be a must for him to submit and to obey if he is able to. Just as having full intention makes it a must for him to attain his goal if he is able to. So it is known that if the goal is not achieved when the presence of ability exists, that there was no real intention in the heart (behind it). And likewise, if we do not see the result of tasdeeq and knowledge from the love in the heart and its obedience, this would indicate (according to their thinking) that what exists in the heart is not tasdeeq and it is not knowledge. Rather, there is misunderstanding and doubt. And this is exactly like the groups have stated and it is the asl of the saying of Jahm and as-Salahi and al-‘Ashari in what is famous from him and most of his companions such as the judge, Abu Bakr and those who followed him from the ones who consider the apparent and hidden actions from the product of Imaan and not it (i.e. Imaan) itself. And they considered from those things, that Imaan is non-existent when they are non-existent to be from the prerequisites of tasdeeq, which they do not consider possible for tasdeeq to be present internally while Kuffr exists, ever.” [Majmu’ al-Fatawa Vol. 7/534-535]

Consumption of Unlawful Corrupts the Heart !

Consumption of What is Unlawful Corrupts the Hearts and Prevents Supplications from Being Answered !

There is clearly a strong relationship between the soundness or corruption of a person’s heart and his food and earnings. A person’s heart becomes corrupt when he earns what is prohibited and dares to eat of it. The Prophet (saws) said in this regard: “Indeed, what is lawful is evident, and what is unlawful is evident, and between the two are matters which are doubtful and unknown to many people.” Then he (saws) followed this with: “Beware! In the body there is (a piece of) flesh which, if it is sound, the whole body is sound, and if it is corrupt, the whole body is corrupt. Behold, this (piece of flesh) is the heart.” [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

The heart is like a king and the limbs are its subjects. They are good when the king is good and corrupt when the king is corrupt.

Al-Munaawi stated that the Prophet (saws) spoke about the heart after illustrating what was lawful and unlawful to indicate that consuming what is lawful lightens and reforms the heart, while doubtful things harden it.

A Warning against Eating the Unlawful

Excellent example in Ibrahim (as) !

His saying: 
"There has indeed been an excellent example for you in Ibrahim…" 

Is just like His commandment: 
"Then, We have sent the revelation to you (that): Follow the Millah Ibrahim." 

So Allah has ordered us to establish ourselves upon the model of Ibrahim al-Khalil (the intimate friend of Allah), and those who followed him from the Messengers, in saying: 
"Verily, we are free from you…" To the end of the Ayah. 

So if this is Wajib for a Muslim to say this to his own people, those in the midst of whom he is living (and thus they are capable of harming him)- Then it is even more apparent and obvious that it is Wajib to say the same to those who are distant (and cannot harm him). And right here, there is a delicate jewel - in the saying: 
"Verily, we are free from you and whatever you worship besides Allah." 

And this jewel is that Allah has commanded Bara’ah from the Mushrikeen – those who worship other than Allah – before commanding Bara’ah from the Tawagheet which are worshipped besides Allah. 

This is so, because the first is more essential than the second. Since it is possible that a person rejects the idols, but does not reject the people who are worshipping them; and thus he is not fulfilling the obligation which is upon him. However, if he does reject the Mushrikeen, that implies that he has already rejected their Tawagheet. And this is similar to the Ayah: 
"And I shall turn away from you, and from those whom you invoke besides Allah."

Emotions 13 Signs Of A Toxic Parent..!

There are all kinds of parents and parenting possibilities. Some are very strict and control every aspect of their child’s life, others are very chill and let the child make their own decisions and mistakes. It is most certain that although there are many different approaches, all parents want to do the best for their kids.

Unfortunately, some parents fail to be the best supporters and examples. Of course, all parents make mistakes from time to time, and there is no right or wrong way to raise a kid, but some mistakes are bigger than others and can leave a permanent mark on the child.

Find out if your parents were making these errors when they raised you. And if you are a parent, try to avoid these 13 behaviors, because this hurts your child:

1. Failing to create a secure and supportive environment

Some parents believe that giving tough love teaches the child what the real world has become. Of course, this might make the child more independent, but it might also leave him with commitment issues and without close relationships later in life. The fact is that we all need love and affection. We need to have that security, which no matter what we do or say, our parents love us unconditionally.

This way we have the courage to try new things and understand who we truly are (because we only learn from our mistakes). Tough love is not wrong, but it definitely cannot be the only approach.